Help me sort this problem out please.im tired....?

So I broke up with my girl about in July,so of sadness i started something else with a different girl,I love and miss my ex but i feel good beside this girl,she heals me and makes me forget about the past,anyway my ex has BF now that she cheated with me alredy (she slept with me) any way that doesnt matter.Ok the girl i have now shes been watin till no for us to be together,she says she neva felt with anyone as she does with me,even her bf that she had for 4 years.Anyway I have feeling for her aswel,so some people dont want us to be together,they just simply jealous,and they are telling her bad things about me,and now she is starting to tink that same will happen as had happend with her ex that she had for 4 years.i said to her dont listen to them she said last time i did that and i lost all my friends when i chose the boy.and of course her friends were right that itme,shes scared t will happen now so she told me lets stop every thing.i told her few things and she now said give me few days.And i dont want to lose her becasue of others...how can i make her not listen to them?Also i herd shes only plyin me but i asked her and she said this isnt truth..and i dont belive it anyway after what been its inpossible nd shes been wating too long 4 me.